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A View From the Other Side of the Couch: Coupledom, Interdependence and Risk

“I define vulnerability as uncertainty, risk, and emotional exposure… Loving someone leaves us emotionally exposed. Yes, it’s scary, and yes, we’re open to being hurt, but can you imagine your life without loving or being loved?” (Brené Brown) A-Ha! I’ve been talking a lot about my personal work toward my transformation. I’m trying to look […]

Wibbly Wobbly Cicadas

“Is not the whole world an illusion? And yet it fools everybody.” (Angela Carter) Who?? My mother was a big Dr. Who fan. My daughter is also a Whovian. Me? Not so much. However, having spent so much time surrounded by Whovians and Who references, the phrase “wibbly wobbly timey wimey” has been a rolling […]

Ruff Stuff

“Security is mostly superstition.” (Helen Keller)   Gone to the dogs, totally Last week we talked about not channeling our inner Zenifred. (You can catch up here.) Today I’ll pick on Andante.   …Oh, don’t you start too! I tried to say something about Dante’s post-surgery “pathetic little chicken leg” on social media and my post was […]